Monday, November 17, 2008

5 mins personality test

try it :) http://www.ipersonic.com/test.html

here is my result

Harmony-seeking Idealist (HI)

Harmony-seeking Idealists are characterised by a complex personality and an abundance of thoughts and feelings. They are warm-hearted persons by nature. They are sympathetic and understanding. Harmony-seeking Idealists expect a lot of themselves and of others. They have a strong understanding of human nature and are often very good judges of character. But they are mostly reserved and confide their thoughts and feelings to very few people they trust. They are deeply hurt by rejection or criticism. Harmony-seeking Idealists find conflict situations unpleasant and prefer harmonious relationships.

However, if reaching a certain target is very important to them they can assert themselves with a doggedness bordering on obstinacy.Harmony-seeking Idealists have a lively fantasy, often an almost clairvoyant intuition and are often very creative. Once they have tackled a project, they do everything in their power to achieve their goals. In everyday life, they often prove to be excellent problem solvers. They like to get to the root of things and have a natural curiosity and a thirst for knowledge. At the same time, they are practically oriented, well organised and in a position to tackle complex situations in a structured and carefully considered manner. When they concentrate on something, they do so one hundred percent - they often become so immersed in a task that they forget everything else around them. That is the secret of their often very large professional success.

As partners, harmony-seeking idealists are loyal and reliable; a permanent relationship is very important to them. They seldom fall in love head over heels nor do they like quick affairs. They sometimes find it very difficult to clearly show their affection although their feelings are deep and sincere. In as far as their circle of friends is concerned, their motto is: less is more! As far as new contacts are concerned, they are approachable to only a limited extent; they prefer to put their energy into just a few, close friendships. Their demands on friends and partners are very high. As they do not like conflicts, they hesitate for some time before raising unsatisfactory issues and, when they do, they make every effort not to hurt anyone as a result.

Hmm.. this is quite true about myself :) i dislike irresponsible , greedy and dishonest people :s especially those who betray their partner and hide themselves away from the problem they have made :p

Sunday, November 16, 2008

Tagged!!

Omg , Tagged by steph !! :S
this is wad i nid to do :
1)Take a recent picture of yourself or take a picture of yourself right NOW!.
2) DON’T change your clothes, DON’T fix your hair… Just take a picture.
3) Post that picture with NO editing.
4) Post these instruction with your picture.
5) Tag 10 people to do this


proof that i take this pic right after i saw her blog , wif my ''o.O-look'' staring at steph


hmm..the 5th instruction i cant leh :s i dun have 10 fren who do blogging and i seriously doubt they will follow !!

ok den , i ignore the 5th instruction :s see im so kind to my fren..

anyway, i guess my desk is much more interesting , as im studying and taking supper ,hmm msning as well :x presenting the messy guy's desk...


Tuesday, November 11, 2008

nice but sad,good lyrics :)

突然好想你 词曲:五月天阿信
最怕空气突然安静 最怕朋友突然的关心
最怕回忆 突然翻滚绞痛著 不平息
最怕突然 听到你的消息
想念如果会有声音 不愿那是悲伤的哭泣
事到如今 终于让自己属于 我自己
只剩眼泪 还骗不过自己
突然好想你 你会在哪里 过得快乐或委屈
突然好想你 突然锋利的回忆 突然模糊的眼睛
我们像一首最美丽的歌曲 变成两部悲伤的电影
为什么你 带我走过最难忘的旅行
然后留下 最痛的纪念品
我们 那么甜那么美那么相信
那么疯那么热烈的曾经
为何我们还是要奔向各自的幸福和遗憾中老去
突然好想你 你会在哪里 过得快乐或委屈
突然好想你 突然锋利的回忆 突然模糊的眼睛
最怕空气突然安静 最怕朋友突然的关心
最怕回忆 突然翻滚绞痛著 不平息
最怕突然 听到你的消息
最怕此生 已经决心自己过
没有你 却又突然 听到你的消息


Monday, November 3, 2008

学问,男人,女人之美?

这应该是我在这星期收到最有趣的短讯。

学问之美,在于让人一头雾水; (很符合我现在面临考试的心情 :p)
女人之美,在于蠢得无怨无悔;
男人之美,在于说谎说得白日见鬼。 :p

lol..我知道我很无聊 .过两天就要考试了,加油加油!! :p

Friday, October 31, 2008

Meaningful email :) Did i marry the wrong person?

Wow, I like this email.....

During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question.

She said,"How do I know if I married the right person?"

I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, "It depends. Is that your husband? "In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighingon your mind.

Here's the answer...

EVERY relationship has a cycle.

In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to Do anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love... Because it's happening TO YOU. People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Think about the imagery of that - expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience.

But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship.

Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when ithappens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?"

And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else.
This is when marriages breakdown.

People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, church, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it.

I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later.


Because (listen carefully to this):

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.


SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you.
You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the - expression "the labor of love."Because it takes time, effort, and energy.

And most importantly, it takes WISDOM.

You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work. Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.

Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable... you can "make" love.

Love in marriage is indeed a "decision"... Not just a feeling.

Tuesday, October 28, 2008

lol...

Some ppl always pin the blame on God , ''y God let all the bad things happen to me?'' , funny ... did they ever praise the God when good thing happens? :s

They only remember God when misfortune happens , ''God please help me'' , always seeking help from God , ask urself wad can u do for God in the 1st place -_-''
Why dont you ask about the war instead, there are war all over the world , u think God cannot stop it? Of cause can , but God let the humans to decide , God will not do anything to stop it.

Pls bear in ur mind that everything happens with a cause , God serves u a walnut but God will not teach u how to open it , everything lies within urself, God will not help ppl who doesnt help themself , is that clear ? ^_^

wow, for the very 1st time i find myself so religious...anyway this post is actually refer to some1 who i dun think he will get to read this, dun worry :)

Darn , exam is coming , im supposed to be studying now!!! God please help me!! ;P

Sunday, October 26, 2008

O.O

nth much for today , but hor juz now when i was taking my bath i think i heard some1 is talking :s mom is slping , dad outstation no1 else is in the hse ... although not really scared but juz hope that the ''thing'' dun come n disturb mi :) i can be more evil than ''u'' .. :p

and then hor i got this cut on my hand which i dono i got it from where .. :s