5 mins personality test

try it :) http://www.ipersonic.com/test.html

here is my result

Harmony-seeking Idealist (HI)

Harmony-seeking Idealists are characterised by a complex personality and an abundance of thoughts and feelings. They are warm-hearted persons by nature. They are sympathetic and understanding. Harmony-seeking Idealists expect a lot of themselves and of others. They have a strong understanding of human nature and are often very good judges of character. But they are mostly reserved and confide their thoughts and feelings to very few people they trust. They are deeply hurt by rejection or criticism. Harmony-seeking Idealists find conflict situations unpleasant and prefer harmonious relationships.

However, if reaching a certain target is very important to them they can assert themselves with a doggedness bordering on obstinacy.Harmony-seeking Idealists have a lively fantasy, often an almost clairvoyant intuition and are often very creative. Once they have tackled a project, they do everything in their power to achieve their goals. In everyday life, they often prove to be excellent problem solvers. They like to get to the root of things and have a natural curiosity and a thirst for knowledge. At the same time, they are practically oriented, well organised and in a position to tackle complex situations in a structured and carefully considered manner. When they concentrate on something, they do so one hundred percent - they often become so immersed in a task that they forget everything else around them. That is the secret of their often very large professional success.

As partners, harmony-seeking idealists are loyal and reliable; a permanent relationship is very important to them. They seldom fall in love head over heels nor do they like quick affairs. They sometimes find it very difficult to clearly show their affection although their feelings are deep and sincere. In as far as their circle of friends is concerned, their motto is: less is more! As far as new contacts are concerned, they are approachable to only a limited extent; they prefer to put their energy into just a few, close friendships. Their demands on friends and partners are very high. As they do not like conflicts, they hesitate for some time before raising unsatisfactory issues and, when they do, they make every effort not to hurt anyone as a result.

Hmm.. this is quite true about myself :) i dislike irresponsible , greedy and dishonest people :s especially those who betray their partner and hide themselves away from the problem they have made :p

Tagged!!

Omg , Tagged by steph !! :S
this is wad i nid to do :
1)Take a recent picture of yourself or take a picture of yourself right NOW!.
2) DON’T change your clothes, DON’T fix your hair… Just take a picture.
3) Post that picture with NO editing.
4) Post these instruction with your picture.
5) Tag 10 people to do this

proof that i take this pic right after i saw her blog , wif my ''o.O-look'' staring at steph

hmm..the 5th instruction i cant leh :s i dun have 10 fren who do blogging and i seriously doubt they will follow !!

ok den , i ignore the 5th instruction :s see im so kind to my fren..

anyway, i guess my desk is much more interesting , as im studying and taking supper ,hmm msning as well :x presenting the messy guy's desk...

nice but sad,good lyrics :)

突然好想你 词曲:五月天阿信

最怕空气突然安静 最怕朋友突然的关心

最怕回忆 突然翻滚绞痛著 不平息

最怕突然 听到你的消息

想念如果会有声音 不愿那是悲伤的哭泣

事到如今 终于让自己属于 我自己

只剩眼泪 还骗不过自己

突然好想你 你会在哪里 过得快乐或委屈

突然好想你 突然锋利的回忆 突然模糊的眼睛

我们像一首最美丽的歌曲 变成两部悲伤的电影

为什么你 带我走过最难忘的旅行

然后留下 最痛的纪念品

我们 那么甜那么美那么相信

那么疯那么热烈的曾经

为何我们还是要奔向各自的幸福和遗憾中老去

突然好想你 你会在哪里 过得快乐或委屈

突然好想你 突然锋利的回忆 突然模糊的眼睛

最怕空气突然安静 最怕朋友突然的关心

最怕回忆 突然翻滚绞痛著 不平息

最怕突然 听到你的消息

最怕此生 已经决心自己过

没有你 却又突然 听到你的消息

学问，男人，女人之美？

这应该是我在这星期收到最有趣的短讯。

学问之美，在于让人一头雾水； (很符合我现在面临考试的心情 :p)
女人之美，在于蠢得无怨无悔；
男人之美，在于说谎说得白日见鬼。 :p

lol..我知道我很无聊 .过两天就要考试了，加油加油！！ :p

Meaningful email :) Did i marry the wrong person?

Wow, I like this email.....

During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question.

She said,"How do I know if I married the right person?"

I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, "It depends. Is that your husband? "In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighingon your mind.

Here's the answer...

EVERY relationship has a cycle.

In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to Do anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love... Because it's happening TO YOU. People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Think about the imagery of that - expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience.

But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship.

Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when ithappens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage. At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?"

And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown.

People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, church, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it.

I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later.


Because (listen carefully to this):

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.


SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the - expression "the labor of love."Because it takes time, effort, and energy.

And most importantly, it takes WISDOM.

You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work. Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.

Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable... you can "make" love.

Love in marriage is indeed a "decision"... Not just a feeling.

lol...

Some ppl always pin the blame on God , ''y God let all the bad things happen to me?'' , funny ... did they ever praise the God when good thing happens? :s

They only remember God when misfortune happens , ''God please help me'' , always seeking help from God , ask urself wad can u do for God in the 1st place -_-''
Why dont you ask about the war instead, there are war all over the world , u think God cannot stop it? Of cause can , but God let the humans to decide , God will not do anything to stop it.

Pls bear in ur mind that everything happens with a cause , God serves u a walnut but God will not teach u how to open it , everything lies within urself, God will not help ppl who doesnt help themself , is that clear ? ^_^

wow, for the very 1st time i find myself so religious...anyway this post is actually refer to some1 who i dun think he will get to read this, dun worry :)

Darn , exam is coming , im supposed to be studying now!!! God please help me!! ;P

O.O

nth much for today , but hor juz now when i was taking my bath i think i heard some1 is talking :s mom is slping , dad outstation no1 else is in the hse ... although not really scared but juz hope that the ''thing'' dun come n disturb mi :) i can be more evil than ''u'' .. :p

and then hor i got this cut on my hand which i dono i got it from where .. :s

bday celebration :)

went for steamboat session with my uni frens :) we ate alot -_- i think the tauke sure vry shocked , hahaha... we reach early but we were the last table to leave the place..hahaha 1 lobster vs 4 fishes ..kekeke

All my frens from UMS - wei xiong , susanto , chok , me and Hon Eong :) actually that day was celebrating me n chok's bday :) wen qiang where r u??? i dun find u in any of the photo...

qi mi , ah ling and pepsi :)

Gan Bei! :)

and then we went Tanjung Aru beach :)

our cake :D

thanks peeps! :)

two of us been forced to take this very gay looking pic...!!!! damn it..hahaa...

hahahaaaa...anyway, happy bday to both of us ^_^''

ok the nex day i met flo and cynthia at damai upper star , they bought mi a small cake :) so sweet . florence's voice sounds like a man ...hahaha.. take a look at this , she didnt noe i was recording her she thought i wan to take a pic of her , she keep asking mi to press the button..hahaha

lol ...i still rmb that day when singing with her , she mocked at a girl that her voice sounds like a man , n now her voice oso turn out to be like this .. :p anyway, drink more water n take care :)

another funny thing is , some1 keep staring at this little angel's kuku for quite some time at the ceiling...hahahaa

check this out

kai li show mi this in the midnite , haha, it's quite sad n true :s for those who have taken ur partners for granted..spare 5 mins to have a look at here.

read the lyrics as well , and start to treasure the person around u :) stop being selfish n irresponsible :)

21 yearsss oldddddd~~!!

hehe im 21 finally :( soon will become more n more like an uncle ... thanks for all the wishes , muackies all! for those who dun remember ...u will get from mi someday.......... :))) jking nia , wish every1 is happy n healthy :)

went out wif ben dan :p

Tonight went out with ben dan florence , ok she always say that im heartless , but this round ... looks wad i did~~? i gave her a suprise and bought her a cake to celebrate her late bday, becuz she wasnt in kk during her bday , and i think tat time she was probably clubbing around in kl :s... hehehehe...here r the evidence :]]]]

ben dan making her bday wish~~ she said she wants 2 wishes..greedy :s..after that we went to sam's house to give her an undies flo bought for her -_- blush.. den we went damai room 24 or 25 (i 4got the name despite always going there :s).. to have drinks over there.. we actually took quite alot of photo at tat night but most of them is in flo's camera due to my crappy camera didnt function well..duh...

This is me with my rainbow cube milky green tea , the taste is so so onli ... and then~ flo shows mi some old pic taken during her form 4 bday , lol ..that was like 5 yrs ago...time flies ... :s.. and then i stolen some pic from her ... heheheee.. look ...

aww...kai li and kai sing ^_^ they looks still the same now, still vry pretty :p it looks like beauty and the beast ..im the beast who trying to take advantage over them , look at my dirty hand ..LOL

After the drink we went to spot pub , florence wants to sing :) ...and coincidently we saw shirley nga :D so qiao... hmmm im still waiting for flo to email mi those photo we taken in spotpub so i can post it over here, we made some frens over there,frenly calvin and bao lung... :)

this 1 is the only clear image from my camera , we was picking songs and hving beers :)ok i noe alot of ppl saying tat im quiet im still learning to talk more ok ? give mi some time :) but then i prefer ppl like flo cuz she is talkative n silly hehehe....suddenly i miss every1 from lok yuk sec sch :) Ok ill end it here while waiting for flo to email mi the photo n off to study :)

some notes for myself.

u got to be stronger n stronger :) no matter how many bad things happened recently...no1 can help u but urself, keep ur tears for some1 or something that worth for it k :] biggest lesson of my life : dun trust on any1 and dun rely on any1 anymore. Learning to be a selfish person ... :] evil grins* STOP BEING SOFT-HEARTED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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early bday gift! :)

Today received the 2nd parcel from sfd -my bday gift :) so happy ,inside have a small box of salonpas becoz she noes my legs always pain :D so sweet , a 8Gb thumb drive which i always wanted despite having a 4Gb and 1Gb alrdy, and a lovely cross stitch made by herself (SFD BOLEH!!) , the 1st parcel was some biscuits and a small little cute piglet ..LOL .. :)) The cross stitch she spent alot of time on doing it , touched* really thanks alot :) muackies ..haha..

sianz

was supposed to post alot of photo for the gala night..zzz but end up everything in a mess n i deleted everything..tmd..

一封至天国的信。Rest in peace my dear friend valerie.

今天应该是美好的一天，得知自己的考试成绩还不赖，加上今天没课，心情很好。。直到这突如其来的消息。。心里一阵剧痛。。
你走了。。。

认识你有半年多， 印象中是个活泼，乖巧的女孩， 每次和你谈起话来，你总是“我爸说：。。。”这个， “我爸说。。。”那个。。说的头头是道的，非常乖巧。后来知道你要到美国去念书真的有点不舍，希望你会适应那里的生活。但是你到了美国后， 每一次都和你谈上不多过半句话，你变得越来越静，越来越静。。你弟弟说你认为没有人关心你，傻孩子，我们大家都很关心你！！你听到了吗？！

hmm...我的房间有一点静， 静得让我回想起你，felix 和我在一起的那一段日子 。这份友情，虽然不长，但却刻骨铭心。坦白说，有一点想痛骂你一顿，但是事情到了这个地步，责怪谁也于事无补了，希望你能找到真正的解脱。

你放心地走吧， 我会替你看好felix的（不会忘了你常叮咛我做的事），也要记得你的笑容，永远会留在我们的心中。
Your smile and laughter will always stay in my heart , good bye my dear friend , Valerie.

1st post!!

starting a blog to drop down some important events and trivial things , hmm , and also to brush up my english n chinese (some1 told mi can but i doubt so lol) ok 1st , get to noe how to use it! :s i realise all the template not nice 1 -_- have to choose this 1 cuz i think it's the best of all the worst 1 =.=